How to Solve Marital Problems, Four Revealing Ways to Get Your Wife Back and Live Longer
Marital trouble and divorce are high on the list of things that affect your life span. Most men are so deeply affected by the experience that their life expectancy is reduced by years; your life insurance company may even consider it when quoting you a rate. So if you are looking for ways to put your marriage back on track or to even get back your Ex if you’ve already gone through divorce, then you are in the right place.
Relationships are all different and yet there are common things that work in just about every case. Here are some things to do if you want to reconcile with your wife.
1. Be honest and objective and consider how your wife feels about you. Realize that she may not even be aware of her feelings, even if she still has feeling for you. Often hurt and anger can mask underlying love so deeply that it seems that love isn’t present at all. She may still love you but is afraid to show it. Several other things about this: (a) If she is indifferent and has no interest in you, it is not a good sign. The opposite of love is not anger but it is indifference. (b)Anger may just be her reflecting back how you have treated her, something you’ve done that she feels a since of betrayal over
2. Go easy, don’t try to overwhelm but take enough time to understand where the problem lies. Both of you need to do this and understand the problems so you can fix them and get back together. Don’t just blame her, remember it is always easier to see someone else’s faults than it is to see our own. It is important to figure this out so you can fix the problem and apologize where you are at fault.
3. Remember go slow here and let a little time go by as you work on yourself. Now get in touch with her. A phone call is appropriate – tell her you still care for her, that you still love and miss her. Tell her that you have thought a lot about things and have a better idea of what went wrong and that you have an idea of how it can be fixed. Keep the conversation on you in that regard, don’t just call up and point the finger at her rather give her time to appreciate the new you. Don’t be needy, just calmly state the facts and stay calm – it’s ok to disagree but there is no place for anger. Presenting a confident calm front will begin to have her wondering what she may be missing.
4. After you’ve told her you love her and would like to get together you might have to wait for her answer. If she feels the same way though you need to set a place and time to meet. Don’t rush this process, in this first meeting try to have a little fun and don’t rush into an issues discussion rather ease into that.
If she winds up telling you that she is not interested in meeting or getting back together, don’t argue but politely tell her that you hope she has a nice life then walk away. Don’t be confrontational or angry, there is no point, it won’t serve you. Leave her wondering what she might be missing.
These steps are a good start on the road to getting your wife back but perhaps you feel you need some more resources to guide you through the reconciliation.
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